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Ways To Engage With Your Student During Break

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As Thanksgiving Break approaches, many of you may be seeing your son or daughter for the first time since dropping them off at college in August. As you converse about the semester so far, there may be a few things that you hear or notice in your Thanksgiving Break conversations or once your student returns to campus post-break. We wanted to prepare you for some of these topics that might assist in the dialogue as you engage your student while on break.

  • Students likely will talk to you about their roommate or living situation. By the sixth week of classes, students may begin to experience the challenges or rough patches that come from living with another person. These tension points are normal at this point in the semester. Please feel free to listen to their concerns, but also encourage them to speak with their roommate if they haven’t already, and/or speak with a Residence Life staff member (their RA is a great place to start!) if they need assistance in working through some of the challenges they are facing. We are here to help students work through these conflicts!
  • It is also common for students to speak first about the harder parts of their college experience to you as their parent, and many times they forget to share about the good things (even though they do exist!). We would encourage you to ask them some of the following questions to help them tease out the good parts of college in their first six weeks:
    • What have you enjoyed about college?
    • What is something that has surprised you?
    • Tell me about some positive experiences you’ve had/relationships you’ve been developing.
    • Who are some of the people you most enjoy being around?
    • What have you been learning in your courses?
    • What do you like about your classes?
    • What is your favorite class you are taking?
  • Furthermore, Thanksgiving Break can be a time for your son/daughter where they realize how much they have been missing home. Again, this is normal! It can take almost a whole year (some even longer!) for students to fully adjust to college life. As your son or daughter returns to campus, please encourage them to be present on campus. Here are some ways you can encourage them in these efforts:
    • Stay on campus during the weekends and be intentional about attending 1-2 events or creating their own memory-making experiences with friends.
    • Try something new they haven’t done each week. College is a time to explore a wide variety of things.
    • Go get a meal with someone they don’t know as well.
    • Invite a professor or staff member to have lunch with them.
    • Stay connected with family and friends via phone, text or social media but find ways to be attentive when engaging new friends and professors in-person.

We are grateful for the ways you dialogue with your student and stay informed about the ins and outs of their college experience. We are always here to assist, so please be sure to encourage your student to seek out our services at any time. We desire to help them in the old and new aspects of college.

 

-Kelsey Murphy, Director of Residence Life

 

Opinions expressed in the Geneva Blog are those of its contributors and do not necessarily represent the opinions or official position of the College. The Geneva Blog is a place for faculty and contributing writers to express points of view, academic insights, and contribute to national conversations to spark thought, conversation, and the pursuit of truth, in line with our philosophy as a Christian, liberal arts institution.

Oct 18, 2023

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